In life, just like in trail running, the path isn’t always smooth. Rocks, roots, and unexpected climbs test our resolve. The same goes for making significant lifestyle changes—whether it's leaving behind a party-fuelled corporate existence, committing to a plant-based diet, or finally prioritizing strength and endurance after years of neglect.
Jocko Willink and Leif Babin’s book Extreme Ownership changed the way I saw responsibility and leadership—not just in business or combat, but in everyday life. Their principles, honed as Navy SEALs, apply just as much to a man looking to overhaul his health as they do to a team executing a high-stakes mission.
One of Jocko’s most powerful lessons is this:
For years, I made excuses. Long hours, needing a release, social obligations—reasons to skip workouts, eat whatever was convenient, and numb myself with binge drinking. But when I finally accepted full responsibility for my health, everything changed. I left the corporate world, trained as a firefighter, and embraced entrepreneurship with The RunStrong Project. This was a massive shift, but one fuelled by the same principle Jocko preaches: take full ownership, prioritise and execute.
Jocko’s Discipline Equals Freedom further solidified the mindset shift. Discipline isn’t restrictive—it’s liberating. When you develop discipline around training, nutrition, and mindset, you’re no longer a victim of your past habits.
A plant-based lifestyle might seem like an extreme change, but so is running ultramarathons or hitting the trails at 5am instead of nursing a hangover or hitting snooze for the 47th time. The reality? It’s all about discipline. Instead of letting the chimp and alcohol control me, I took ownership of what I fuelled my body with and the choices I made—nutrient-dense, whole foods that enhanced recovery, performance and clarity. Look that doesn't mean I always get it right or make the right decisions but striving for better more often delivers the marginal gains for higher success rates.
Jocko often says:
This rings true when adapting to new habits. There were, and are, days when I didn’t feel like hitting the trails, just like there were,and are, times I craved old vices. But discipline—not motivation—got me through.
By taking ownership of your actions, you reclaim control. If you’re a man over 40 looking to break the cycle and optimize your health, start by asking:
Trail running, kettlebell training and a wholefood plant based lifestyle became my proving ground. Each session and moment of discipline reinforced the idea that I controlled my body, my mind, and my future. The results followed: improved endurance, mental clarity, better relationships, and a newfound sense of purpose.
If you're ready to step up, here are key resources to help you apply these lessons to your life:
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FIND YOUR WILL, FIND YOUR DISCIPLINE - AND YOU WILL FIND YOUR FREEDOM Jocko Willink's methods for success were born in the SEAL Teams, where he spent most of his adult life, enlisting after high school and rising through the ranks to become the commander of the most highly decorated special operations unit of the war in Iraq. In Discipline Equals Freedom, Willink describes how he lives that mantra: the mental and physical disciplines he imposes on himself in order to achieve freedom in all aspects of life
Whether it's hitting the trails, entering an event outside your comfort zone, dropping excess bodyfat, Improving your nutrition or relationships, or simply being totally honest with yourself about your overall health the same principle applies: take extreme ownership and commit to discipline.
If you're ready to stop making excuses and start making real change, start today. Step onto the trail, pick up the kettlebell, choose real food over processed junk. The time is now.
Because at the end of the day, the only person responsible for your health, happiness, and success—is you.
My mission is to help men at 40+ build strength, endurance, and resilience through trail running, kettlebell training, and a whole food plant-based lifestyle. But this goes beyond just fitness—it’s about transformation.
I believe in Extreme Ownership—taking full responsibility for your health, mindset, and the way you show up in life. My aim is to use Transformational Coaching to help men shift from the old “work hard, play hard” mindset to one focused on longevity, purpose, and optimal health. With a Growth Mindset, we reframe setbacks as opportunities, pushing limits on the trails and in life.
I incorporate Chimp Management and mental toughness principles to help you master your mindset, control emotions, and make decisions that align with your long-term goals. For many, this journey is about evolving—moving beyond the corporate grind and redefining success as strength, adventure, and contribution.
The goal? To not just get stronger, but to become the kind of man who thrives in the second half of life—physically, mentally, and purposefully.
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